Ok, VJ, you can do this. You can go, without making it into some sort of performance art. You’re not bringing your whole poly-family, or a paid male “escort.” Or a paid female “escort.” Go, behave, and don’t make this a forum for your twisted sense of humor. You will not flash your boobs. You will not tell your classmates that you are a drug mule. Despite what your psychiatrist is coming to believe, you CAN behave for short stretches of time. You can be civilized for one. short. evening. (Especially if there’s a bar and there is, I checked.)
Your true, authentic self is …… probably shocking enough, anyway.