Valancy Jane says:
I think I’m in an exploring-boundaries phase.
So I guess what I’m saying is ….
…….. Wanna make out?
*giggle*
Thérèse says:
*giggle*
You really, really seem to be.
In that you have a quite dramatic lack of boundaries, suddenly.
Valancy Jane says:
I’ve noticed that too.
Should I be worried about that?
I think it’s [Someone]’s encouragement, really.
I think I always felt that I’d at least have to act semi-normal, or be alone.
Thérèse says:
Hm.
Valancy Jane says:
And that was pretty much the only fear that COULD check my behavior, because who wants to be alone?
Thérèse says:
That’s good motivation to fit in.
Valancy Jane says:
Now that that fear has been removed, I feel so much freer.
Thérèse says:
Unfortunately, he seems to have let the crazy loose.
Valancy Jane says:
He really has.
Is that bad?
Thérèse says:
The good thing is that everyone is pretty crazy, VJ.
The thing is, most people try to hide that. You glamourize and celebrate your eccentricities. It’s what makes you interesting to read.
Valancy Jane says:
He adores it. He participates in it, which is the important thing.
Thérèse says:
And so, in typical enabling fashion, I will say, let loose you wild hussy!
Also, make sure you think a bit before you do things, so that you won’t regret them later.
That’s it.
Valancy Jane says:
I’m so tired of men that like my crazy because they have no crazy of their own, or that it’s just buried too deep.
Thérèse says:
Naomi has that problem too.
She’s so wonderful that men want to be around her so that they can feel like they’re more spontaneous and exciting. It’s draining.
Valancy Jane says:
Because while they adore it at first, they envy it second, and try to squash it last.
Thérèse says:
Yeeeeeees.
They always want to change it.
Girls are like that too, actually.
A lot of girls want to be friends with her because she’s awesome, but they either hold her up on this pedestal of excitement and awe, or they put her down out of jealousy.
I suspect you have similar problems sometimes. I’m not saying it happens all the time, just that it happens.
Valancy Jane says:
Yes, that happens too.
But [Someone] has plenty of crazy of his own, so he’s not so dependent on me to have fun.
Which, in turn, breeds MORE fun.
Not exhaustion.
I’m noticed that too, but make-outs are lovely self-esteem boosters. Good for everyone around
Oh, making out is FANTASTIC. It’s therapy, entertainment, it’s even good for your teeth.
Oh, the pros of making out? Well, this one guy once told me that it would make my skin more luminous.
Or was that in reference to something more specific…?
(ahem.)
Hee. I bet it IS good for your skin. And if you do it the way I do, it’s often exercise as well.
I love that Someone loves you for your true self. I love you for your crazy too, but it doesn’t seem crazy to me, it just seems like that’s how everyone should be.
OH! And ITS good for streach marks too! Trust me, I know.
Really? Fantastic.
Your someone is a crazyyyyyyyy mothacracka. Mine is only a tad bit insane.
me=jealous
Me = Lucky.